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TO ALL YOU INDEPENDANT WOMEN - help.
I'm becoming one of you. Now - I'm finally joining your club. I am removing myself from the depression. I am not surrendering, and I am most definitely taking control. I need a change. There will be no more feeling like I don't care, no more "nothing matters, so i dont need to care about my grades, my looks, my life..myself!" NONE OF THAT. This is the new me. I'm willing to work so hard to become one of you. Independant. I no longer want to feel like i have to find a great husband in the future because im too weak and too much of a failure to be able to take care of myself. I no longer want to feel the nedd to impress my family or my friends. I want my happiness to depend on ME. No more letting ex relationships control me. No more coming here to ask what to do about my depression or what to do with a guy - from now on im trusting my own intuition. SO MY QUESTION?
I've said it before- Im ready to work hard to become independent and happy. But where do I start? How do i become stronger, mentally and emotinally? Where do I start with taking control over my life?
Please give me instructions on how you did it. Give me tips and trics to keeping my hopes up and never giving up. Help me strengthen my faith in myself, help me love myself, tell me how to become independant please.
THANK YOU. And congratulations on being a strong, independent women who decides over her own happiness! :D im proud of you girls! and i admire you! :)
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Well, go you!
Changing who you are can be a big deal... don't expect it to all just happen after you make this declaration, it'll take awareness and work over a long period of time.
My recommendations: first, be single. There's no better way to figure yourself out and be sure that no one else is leading your life. If you just ended a relationship that wasn't good for you, take a year off from dating, look at relationships around you and compare them, think about what you want and what you won't compromise one.
Second, be a feminist! Read some good feminist books and visit cool feminist websites, like NOW or feminist majority. Go see the vagina monologues and subscribe to BUST and BITCH. Those are some independent, empowered women that you'll learn a lot from, you know?
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First of all: well done for being strong enough to deicde you want to maike a change and your showing your stronger by just doing this
Second: if somethings bugging you dont keep it all inside find someone you cant rust and talk toabout anything thats bugging yo
Third: I think its gr8 you dont thinkg you need a man to be strong
Fourth: to be stronger mentally you have to know what you want to acheive and not compare youself to anyone else.
5th: be who YOU want to be! do what YOU want to do!
And when you feel like giving up think about what youve done and what youve acheived to get where you areand that should keep you going.
Never thing youre to weak or not good enough to do something ebcaue that will just get you down. If you find youreself going into depression again dont let things slide talk to someone or find a place where you can get help.
Never put someone else before you if you feel low and take the time to do what you need to do.
Sometimes things are going to not be gr8 and its then you need 2 be strongest.
You should be proud of yourself for not giving in and doing something about your depression
good luck
hope this helps you
kim
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