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does he love me? or is he shy?
hey im 13 and im a girl i want to know somethings about my realtionship. okay so me and this guy have ne bff since like the 6th grade n we used to talk and talk and talk. and we liked each other. the other day he asked me out and i said yea and no he only kisses me. he dosnt hold my hand or anything and i dont know what to do. does he love me or not? and i dont wanna be the one making the first move or anything. PLEASE HELP!!! SORRY ITS SO LONG GUYS!!!
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i completely understand. girls shouldnt be the one always making the first move. he must definatly like yu. he is probibly just a little shy to mkae the move himself. he's waiting for that one moment. and dont worry becus that will come soon [=
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Well, I wouldn't be worrying about anything really at this stage in the relationship. You guys can't be moving too fast, you know. You guys JUST started dating the other day ; love develops over time and feelings, you guys don't really have that much real feelings for eachother yet.
As for the holding hands, just hold his hand. It'll let him know you like it whenever you guys hold hands and it makes you happy, so he'll probably do it more often. Just whenever you guys are holding hands, just mention to him how you really like it when he holds your hand and hugs you and kisses you and everything. He'll think it's cute. :]
It's fine if the girl makes the first move every now and then. He already made the first general move in asking you out, making the first move with holding hands isn't that major, so I'm sure it'll be fine. Sometimes a guy likes it anyways whenever a girl makes the first moves, too. :)
I hope I helped.
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Well, I think you might be getting ahead of yourself. Especially with the love part, I mean, I would talk to him about it and ask him why he doesn't do anything, but kiss you. Because if that's really all he does, it's more like a fling than a relationship.
Other than that, I don't think there's much else you can do. If you're looking for a serious relationship, which it sounds that way to me, I think you both aren't on the same page. I think if you were, then you you wouldn't be having this problem. Good Luck!
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