Question Posted Wednesday September 27 2006, 10:12 pm
wel i use to like this guy lets say his name is tom and he is asian like me but when he found out i liked him he goes up to me and says i don't like you i like only white and black people and i mean that hurt he judged me so easily because of my culture and then i got this dream i kissed my ex like we were bf and gf lets say his name was apples and i loved him alot but we've both moved on (i think) and all of a sudden these days he kalls me after skewl and then calls me once mre at night time and he always wants me to go on the transit bus with him what does that mean does he still have feelings for me? do i have feelings for him from that dream? but then theres this other guy lets say his name is grim he is soo nice and cute and he always wants me to sit beside him and he loves teasing me does that mean he likes me? that guy that judged me so easily i liked him alot what does that mean? do i have bad taste? should i just stay single? oh please help!!
-thank you
Okay..erm. Tom is a bastard. He apparently is insecure about his ethnicity and was so rude to you setereotyping and being somewhat racist..even against HIS culture. You really don't need a guy like that. He has no life and you should'nt even waste one more breath on him.
Apples...maybe he wants to be best friends wiht you and there is a chance that he wants to get back together but I suggest you don't. You guys are ex's for a reason. If you want to go throughall the problems and arguments you guys went through again, go ahead and be my guest. But you guys broke up because you guys couldn't solve things wihtout breaking up so there is no point in going out with your ex again...
Grim...just because he teases you does NOT mean he likes you. I know a lot of guys that tease me. There's Tom, Luke, Terry, Jeff, Stephen, Eddie, and a bazillion other people. But they are just my friend and I'm just their friend. It could bejust Grim's personality and how he acts. I can't tell you if he does or doesn't like you.
And for the single question...you should just stay single until you get your feelings sorted out. You don't want to be going out with a guy while you like another guy and it complicates things up [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
Short_N_Punky answered Thursday September 28 2006, 12:38 pm: No offence hun but you have major drama issues, I think the dream just means that you are confused about who you like and your ex oyfriend coming up to you and calling you, wanting to hang out, maybe he just wants to be friends. I mean thats what it sounds like to me. Your not in the wrong and you dont have bad taste but if that other guy that likes teasing you likes you for who you are than go for him. The one who judged you his name was tom? i believe just leave him alone because he sounds like the type of person who is denial and is to quick in judging he should just get to know the persons personality before talking bad.
Hope iv helped a little, write back and tell me how things went i would love to know.
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