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its about my boyfriend
i am a 13 year old female and me and my boyfriend have been goin out for alittle longer then 3 months and everythings great but we dont really get to see each other often so our relationship kind of depends on the phone my problem is though that we get on the phone and just listen to each other breathe! Theres nothing at all to talk about and we both always complain,especially him. what am i suppose to do?
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I'm not sure why it is exactly you guys don't get to see eachother often, wether it be sports or whatever, but try and make plans together more, wether it be on the weekend or during the week. You need to be able to see eachother, or else your relationship, just like listening to eachother on the phone breathe, is going to get mighty stupid.
But whenever you guys ARE on the phone, just talk about anything. It's okay to be random ; I'm sure he'd rather prefer it than absolutely nothing. Tell him about your day in school, what you're doing this weekend, where you're going, where is he going? What is he doing? And just ask him what's new and what's going on with things, and try and take the conversation from there.
Otherwise, if neither of these plans work, you need to have a serious talk. Let him know this relationship can't continue if it's only based on what happens on the phone - which is already nothing. And if you two don't start to make more of a commitment to see eachother or talk, it might as well just go and end. Maybe by taking a break you guys'll realize how much you guys need to work at it and how much it's worth seeing eachother by missing eachother, or it's just a good wake up call.
I hope I helped.
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Try to make it so you can see each other on weekends, that way, your relationship isn't so dependent on the phone. No relationship should be. But if it gets to the point where neither of you are making an effort to change the relationship, and how much you see each other, then that relationship should end. And you should probably find someone you see more often, and someone you talk to. Because listening to each other breathe is lame. Could you imagine just sitting there and all of a sudden he's like "OMG, YOU'RE BREATHING PATTERN JUST CHANGED, YOU OKAY?!"
Lol.
♥TiNA
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