i just got out of a bad relationship with my ex. my new boyfriend is everything that my ex was and was not. and i love him to death. my ex didnt love me the way he said he did. he lied to me constantally. he left it up to me to keep in contact (he was 1000 miles away). just crap like that. the distance and other girls is basically what separated me and my ex. however, my current boyfriend, nick, is so amazing. i know that he would never do anything to hurt me. he is there for me. was there for me when i was breaking up with my ex. (really didnt want to break up with him cause he was my first love). nick is just amazing. however, i am beginning to see qualities in nick that drove me and my ex apart. and im beginning to wonder about me and nicks relationship. its not as strong as i would like it to be. i dont get to see nick as much as i would like to either. yea, he does live in the same city as me, but he doesnt go to my school. and thats beginning to play a part in my doubt. i really want to be able to trust him fully and completely. but, i cant get over this doubt. cant help but wonder if my ex is at fault for causing me to not be able to trust people. he hurt me so bad. anywho... how am i supposed to get over this doubt in my new relationship with nick?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? saleeha answered Thursday September 28 2006, 8:03 pm: well you need to ask yourself if Nick is anything like your ex was. i mean you did say that he wouldn't do anything to hurt you and he luvs u very much...so you should trust him. and if it's hurting you tat badly, you should talk to him. if he luvs u, he should be able to understand. and as far as the diff school problem goes, it doesn't matter if your in different schools..i mean me and mi bf are in different countries..but that doesn't affect our love 1 bit. as long as you two keep seeing each other, it shouldn't be a problem. [ saleeha's advice column | Ask saleeha A Question ]
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