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i cant get over him
well the guy i like went to a different school and i never saw him again since than. things were never good between us and i know he liked me but i always kinda turned him down (because i always got nervous when he talked to me and said things i dont wanna say. especally when he told me he loved me he was like: i love you and i tried to be your friend but you where so mean and than i was like: yeah i know i love beeing mean.)) I DONT KNOW WHY I SAID THAT. it was like another person was talking but not me.i apologized and he said it's okay but we never talked so much after that but he still looked at me alot , gave me high five and talked to me but only sometimes. so anyway he went to a differnet school now and i love him soooo much. he is all i can think about and the school is not the same without him. everything sucks now. i feel like there is nothing good in my life anymore. i miss him so much. and the sad thing is that i dont have many friends. just one , but she lives far away and also goes to a different school and one who is in 5th grade (i'm in 8th grade by the way the boy i like is in 9th grade ) so i feel so terrible and as i was saying i love him very much and now he's just gone...
it hurts so badly
please help
oh yeah and dont tell me what kinda idiot i was because i know that myself
thx
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girl, I just think you in denial. You know you love this guy but when you go in front of him the ego turns on. I'm not tryna go old skool on ya, But its like Helga's crush over hey Arnold. He as the freahman he is, has decided to confront his feelings about u, but you weren't ready for him. He must be so fine, you can't handle the heat from Him. I say you call him take him to a place, for just the two of you to hangout. Talk about old times.
And say
"Blank, I have loved u for a long time, the fact that I have rejected u when you had step up to me killed me, and when you left to High School it had killed me even more. It may not seem that I don't love you as much as I do but that's not true. I want us to be more than friends, I really do."
Then go on from there. I am not tryna make this a dramatic shanaynay like seen, but honey this is what you need.
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being mean to guy isnt a good idea but letting him know that you do feel something for him will help and if he doesnt hold what happened before against you then youre good arnt you.
Maybe he'll think youre going to be mean to himb ut let him know that youre not like that and hell soon see what youre like. You wernt an idiot you just didnt know what to do but tell him and see what happens because it was obvious he liked you maybe he still does
good luck
hope it all helps
kim
xxx
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okay talk more to the guy. and about the friends theme, get into clubs make new friends. if you really want to get to know someone go up to them and say hi my name is_____ whats yours? and just start a convo. its that easy. well Hope I Helped!!!
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your not stupid. everyone says stuff they regret once in a while. I feel nervous to when I talk to guys I like, but it's normal and when you talk to them just take a lot of deep breaths and think about what you are going to say to them and what they would say back to it. There are 2 main choices of things you can do:
1) tell him that you miss him. you cna just be really friendly and you can let him though that you are thinking about hima dn school isn't the same without him. This can be online or on the phone.
2) forget him. I know this might be hard or even impossible, but try to push him to the back of your mind. Wait until another guy comes along. As annoying as waiting is.
Don't worry in the end everyhting ends up how it's supposed to be. I your meant to be with him it will happen. If not you will find another guy.
hope i helped. Any more questons leave them in the inbox.
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