Question Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 10:52 pm
alright so i've liked this guy since 4th grade and in 6th grade we went out for 6 months and we were in like love but then he had to move and we really havent talked for like a year now and i'm in 8th grade and i like him A LOT still but theres this other guy i've liked for a year and i feel like i'm in the with both of them and i just dont know what to do you know what i mean? liking someone for 4 years is a lot more then 1 year liking this other guy and me and the 4 year guy dont talk but the 1 year guy and me are like best friends and goofy around a lot and talk every day and stuff and i dont know to do please help me
I know it might be hard to let go, but when you think about common sense, it's better to leave your feelings about the 4yearguy. I understand it may be difficult to do that, but if you do fall in love again and go out, it will be even HARDER because you won't get to ever see it and it's worse to have yourself that much stress. If you feel like your new relationship isn't long enough to start dating, then continue being friends, if not, then go for it, if you also leave your feelings behind. If you can't leave you feelings, then don't do it with the 1yearguy because it wouldn't be fair to him, 4yearguy, or even yourself.
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