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i love him but he doesnt know
theres this boy that i love with all my heart and i dream about him every night all of those love icons and all those shitty love quotes in my profile are about him. we've went out twice but we broke up because we didnt know eachother well enough then. now we are best friends and im in almost all of his classes in school. theres one problem, hes going out with my BEST friend. and i could never tell her that i like him because she will be mad since they are so much in love and i talk to this guy online every day and i want to tell him how i feel but i just cant and he and my friend could be going out for years with the way they're heading and i cant wait that long. i dont feel this way about anyone else if there was 1000 hott guys in the room including him, hes the only one i would notice. i dont know what to do and no i dont want to forget about him because we have something special i can feel it. do i tell him how i feel and risk losing my best friend or do i keep it bottled up inside? i just dont know anymore. if youve ever been in a situation like this or you know someone that has comfort me and make me feel better and explain how you or that person you know got out of a situation like this. he means everything to me
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Your in luck...i too have been in a similar situation and know what you are going through.
It would help if you included your age, but i can still give you some advice on handling your situation. Firsly, you should talk to your friend...tell her that you really value her friendship and never want to hurt her or lose her as a mate, but that you can't help the feelings that you have. Tell her what you have told me...that you can't stop thinking about him. If she is a good friend she will understand and will talk to you. But don't just tell her you love him out of the blue!
Secondly...Explain that you know they are in a relationship and that you don't want to ruin it but that you had to tell her how you feel.
Don't expect too much...If things work out for them as a couple, then don't be offended or think you will never find anyone else...You will!! At the moment it seems like he is the only one, but trust me...there is someone for you, and that person may not be him...So don't give up on love just for one guy...But don't just keep your feelings to yourself or it will make things worse and you will risk losing your mate as well.
I hope i have helped...Good Luck! xx
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