theres this boy and we did this camp thing together this summer and that's where i met him, he was with my best friend for a while but thats over. and now hes with me.. but we're going out in secret i guess? everyone knows but he wont actually ask me. and in a few weeks is his homecomming, and everything thought he was gonna ask me. he hasnt been talking to me a lot latley.. and its kinda been upsetting me thinking that he doesnt like me. when i imed him last night we were talking about homecomming and he wants to go with someone whos just a friend, and someone that will know other people there and i guess thats not me. but wat upsets me is hes asking my best friend. i told him i didnt care but in reality i was in my room crying cuz he doesnt know how much it wouldve meant to me if he took me. should i be scared? am i just being stupid and this really isnt a big deal? and should i tell him the truth and talk to him about it instead of lying to him..? cuz lying to him is making me feel horrible.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? PhoebeNo2 answered Monday September 25 2006, 7:26 pm: right huni to start with you are not in the wrong, he has obviously been giving you the wrong signals. just ask him outright, please dont lie, tell him how you feel. i know this sounds really scary but if he is truly a friend he wont hurt you. if you think he will throw it back in your face find someone else, a good friend or cousin maybe to go to the dance with you and if you see him when you are there dont be nasty or anything just talk to him as a friend. i hope everything goes well for you, let me know if it goes okay xx [ PhoebeNo2's advice column | Ask PhoebeNo2 A Question ]
Geneva answered Sunday September 24 2006, 4:06 pm: tell him the truth. if he's gonna go out with someone and still be with you then that's not a true blue bf! there are more men out there [ Geneva's advice column | Ask Geneva A Question ]
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