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Idk what's going on..
16/f
I'm pretty upset. My best friend and I have been planning to go to a football game together tonight since monday. I called her to ask when she was going to pick me up because she told me to. So when I called she said she was shopping with her mom and she told me to call her back in 10 minutes and they'd be done. So I waited about 15 so I didn't seem so anxious. Well when I called her back she didn't say much. SO I was like okay, when are you coming to get me? and she said she was kinda mad. When I asked why she said she had to go to baton rouge with her mom.
When I told my mom this, she was like "while her grandmother's in ICU? I don't think so"
Her grandmother is very sick and it doesn't seem likely that they would go so far away when something could happen to her at any moment.
Thats what made me start thinking..
I'm not so sure if she was lieing or what. The first time I talked to her she sounded fine and she was telling me that this other girl that's our friend was going to be there. And it was only 15 minutes earlier!
The thing is, she always has a tendancy to be late, or to not be able to do things. Sometimes she just doesn't call. Like once we planned on Tuesday to go to the mall on Friday and she didn't call me.
I know that I'm not annoying or bothering her or anything. We're BEST friends. We don't see each other alot unless it's like on the weekends or something. And she says I'm her bestie and always will be. She even has a paragraph for me on her myspace.
What could be going on? What can I do to tell her that I've had enough of this? She's not the easiest to talk to about this kind of thing.
Thanks
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I think you should be her freind, and just leave her alone...she will come around. You guys sound like kids, Maybe she never asked to go and then when she did ask, her parents said no. I think because you dont know whats going on, you should back off a bit, and wait until she comes around.
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i would just tell her straight up that what she does to you, like kinda letting you down on plans and all really bothers you because you guys are besties and should hang out all the time. just ask her whats going on. if shes a true friend she'll tell you.
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