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I am scared
i have had sex.. i am only 12... i am scared to go to a docter without my mom finding out or where do i put the pills god i wish i just had them and didnt have to go to the docter... :[.I dont know who to talk to about this kindof stuff because i am the only person whose had sex in my grade.. and i go to a cathloic school so i like cant tell anyone or i will be a slut and no one will like me. i drink wich is bad but i cant help it i am not addicted but i just do for fun. haha but yeah just i need some addvice and someone to talk to.
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You're throwing away your childhood. You obviously aren't realizing this at the moment, but when you reach your older teens, it will hit you that you were a very foolish youngster.
12 year olds shouldn't be having sex. They cannot handle it emotionally. You might think you can, but really, you can't. and years from now you will wish you would have waited.
and are you really thinking about your options here? You don't want your mum finding the pills. It's good you're taking precautions but they have MANY side effects. Physical and emotional.
If I were you, I would lay off the sex and wait.
You wanted advice and I'm giving it to you, whether or not this is what you want to hear is a different story.
You're drinking for fun..
Did you know youngsters who participate in things such as drinking/drug taking/smoking etc are at a much higher risk of becoming addicted and can damage their body MUCH quicker than adults?
You might think the answer is yes and you probably think to yourself "oh, i dont care! im only having fun!"
But seriously, you're harming yourself. and need to stop.
You have plenty of time to do this when you're older. Why are you in so much of a rush to grow up? You should be enjoying being young while you can. Growing up is hard. and drinking and sleeping around certainly won't help you.
Best of luck...
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Hon, you're only 12. You have years to have sex. Why now? You really can't get pills by yourself without a doctor so good luck on that. Don't have sex hon. Would you like to be a 13yr old mom? Or carry STDs? Don't say "That wil lnever happen to me. I'll be extra cautious, use a condom, etc." No. It can happen to anyone--with or without a condom. If you get pregnant with a child--then what? Abortion? It's not as easy as it sounds. You'd be killing an innocent being without giving it a chance to live. Giving birth? You'll recieve damage as well as teh baby--the baby might even die. All those things are very hard on life and what if your mom found out? Could you live for 6 years having lost your mom's trust, not being able to hang out with guys at all, possibly get put into an all girl's school, etc?
Drinking...goodness. Teenagers who drink alcohol under the age 15 are more likely to become an alcoholic. You're at an illegal age to drink. Who is supplying you with these drinks? Do you parents keep them around in the house? Although they may not be intentionally supplying you with these, they can still get arrested if they found out you were drinking. Drinking is a suppresant that works for roughly an hour. It damages your skin, internal organs, gives youbad breath, etc.
I'm not sure but when young girls such as yourself have already had sex, do drugs/smoke/drink will have a high percentage chance where there has been something that happened when you were younger (divorce, abuse, etc)I'm ALWAYS here to talk so just email me at xchoke_on_dead_hopex@yahoo.com or IM me on AIM at r0ck0nl0ser and yes. I have YIM and MSN too
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