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Im doing bad again...


Question Posted Monday September 18 2006, 1:41 pm

Im afraid of f... things up again. I go with the wrong people at school, and Im afraid of buying drugs and get admitted to the hospital again.... I was there for 9 months...
I need your advice.

Im from Norway, I apology my poor English.


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Vetz answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 6:51 am:
Thanks for all kind replys... Im going to the pdoc tomorrow, I might get admitted to the hospital again, I dont know... Who knows...? May God be with me, Im listening to 2pac - Changes.

Man its a good song about the things im trhu right now, its tough days . Looking forward to replys. Thanks

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BitsandPieces answered Monday September 18 2006, 11:21 pm:
I am glad that you understand the connection between behavior and the company we share. The people we choose to be with do influence us and our decision. You need to be around people that do not do drugs. It is that simple. If that means you have to lose friends, then that will have to be. It is better to lose a few friends, then to die. Also, no one who would encourage you to harm yourself is a friend you need. This is your life and you must stand up for your own health and future. For now, be your own best friend. You can also seek out a support group, get a counselor, and someone to be accountable to. Find a group today and make some new friends.

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abstract_profanity answered Monday September 18 2006, 8:50 pm:
I don't completely understand this question but I'll do my best.

It seems like you give in to people too much. You should not do that because it will affect you at some point. You do have the option of speaking up and saying "no".

If you dislike the people you have out with you don't need to keep in contact with them. Simply find friends who have similar interest as you or people who you think have good qualities. This way you'll be much happier and better off. If you do want to still hang out with these people you can. But if they do something bad and you don't want to be apart of it you don't have to. You can still talk to them you just need to be able to stand up for yourself and know what you don't want to do and be able to get yourself out of that situation.


I'm sorry you were in the hospital. Simple fact: If you're afraid of buying drugs don't buy them. You'll have a much lower risk of getting caught and you won't have to worry about going to the hospital.

Good luck!

-Shannon

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DHunter answered Monday September 18 2006, 8:20 pm:
I agree with the other answer. God can help you get through this. Friends come and go. Some bad and some good. Sometimes you just have to get rid of some and get new ones in order to feel safe and comfortable in life. Their is tons of kids out there and I know alot are good and perfect to be your friends.

Chad

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xY0M0MMAx answered Monday September 18 2006, 8:02 pm:
Make new friends. Get rid of your old friends. Choose good ones. Start your life over.
Do you believe in God? Begin going to church. Read the bible. Pray.

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