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I will be 14 in 4days! Right now i am in 8th grade. I've had a boyfriend once, in 7th grade. He was in 8th grade (not the cutest guy, but he made me laugh) He asked me out on AIM during thanksgiving break. I said yes. I told my sister and shes like "you scored an 8th grader", and im like yes. My sister is now a freshman in college. So i dont talk to her that much. About this age is when i think is good to have a boyfriend, but i can't figure out the best way to tell my mom if i get one. I never told my mom about the other guy last year, because he was an 8th grader and it didnt last long. He moved wayy to fast so i broke up with him after a week. I am not officially allowed to go on a 1 on 1 date till im 16. but i can still have a boyfriend, and he can come to my house and i can go to his. The big question im trying to ask, is how i should tell my mom when i have a boyfriend. Im nervous for when that time comes. Please help me!
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Happy Birthday! lol Just be honest with your mom. She knows that you're at the age where you're interested in guys. If you're honest with her now and you talk to her about things then when it comes time to go on one-on-one dates, she will trust you because you've been honest with her. If there's a guy at school you like, just let her know that you think he's cute, or funny, etc. Talk to her about your friends and let her know you're staying out of trouble. If you're serious enough about a guy to want him to come over etc., then just be like "theres this guy at school that I like, would it be ok if he came over for dinner, or to just hang out one day?". I'm sure your mom would be thrilled that you're talking to her about it and letting her meet him. Just be prepared to get the birds and the bees talk if you start to get too close to him. lol I hope this helped, and feel free to ask if you have more questions. <3 Dana
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I think that the best way is to sit her down, when she's in a good mood of course, and tell her.
dont be like "i have a boyfriend and you cant stop me" because she'll get mad.
just say something like "mom, i wanted to ask your permission to have a boyfriend. i am 14 years old and think i am mature enough to understand the situation. i will obide by all of your rules, tel you where i am, who im with,what time ill be home, and all that stuff. would it be ok with you if i dated?"
she would respect the fact that you are acting in a mature manner and you are willing to follow her guildlines.
hope i helped!
and happy birthday!
Mecha Becca
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I would first bring him over your house and have him hang out and you know be kind to your parents so your parents can get to know him and get an impression of him. Then later that night whenever he leaves, just be like,"So did you like him?" [ Mother: yes ] and then just be like "Great!" or something and continue the conversation about whatever. Then, the next day whenever you're talking to your mom just be like,"Hey remember ____? Well, he asked me out today, and I said yeah. :)" Every girl is nervous whenever it comes to telling their mother they have a boyfriend, especially if their mothers a little iffy on that subject, but you'll feel less nervous after you tell her, and if you're allowed to have a boyfriend, then you know she'll be fine with it. I hope I helped.
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