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Question Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 1:52 pm

Im sorry thats just the way I write. and yes i will rewite it even tho is pointless.

well i have a boyfriend and me and carlos have been together for 6 months and a week. weve been through so much. ive already had sex with him. both of our parents already know. i love him. and he feels the same way about me to. my mom really thinks i deserve much better. since i come from a high to do family. and he is kinda poor. but money isnt an issue to me. i love him. but she doesnt approve of him.im not allowed to talk to him on the phone nor see him. he doesnt go to my school. so one day i just got tired of everything and called him crying telling him i couldnt do this anymore and told him i think we shouldnt be together if it was going to be like this. he started crying. it broke my heart. i love him so much but i dont know if i should stay with him or let it go.


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Razhie answered Sunday September 17 2006, 5:47 pm:
It is no more pointless then saying thank you when someone gives you a gift. Its simply good manners.

When someone gets dumped it always hurts, and its normally hurts the person who does the dumping just as much as the dumped. It's a hard, heart-breaking situation, but that doesn't mean the break up is wrong.

Sometimes loving someone isn't enough. Life has conspired against you and you've found no way to work around its obstacles. If you believe that you have done everything in your power to make this work, and it simply can't, then you were right to break up with him. You wouldn't have been doing him any favors sticking it out in a relationship where you were miserable and he was probably just as unhappy, even if he hadn't decided it was worth ending the relationship.

There are points in our lives where we are able to carry on relationship even if our parents disagree, those points generally are when we are adults in our own homes, not when we are still captives in theirs.

You got tired, you got feed up and that's okay. It's okay to decide that even though you love somebody a relationship is just more work then can be any good.

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