Question Posted Sunday September 17 2006, 12:29 am
Me and my boyfriend have been together a month, and everything between us is wonderful. There's only one thing that's bugging me. When we have sex, I can't seem to get him to orgasm very much at all. He hasn't said anything about it, but it bugs me. Any tips?
Vikki27 answered Sunday September 17 2006, 7:21 am: You need to work together on this. It may be that there's something psychological that is causing him some problems and not allowing him to let go properly or it could be that he just doesn't experience strong orgasms.
The best recommendation I can make is that you talk the problem over with him and work out whether he feels satisfied or not. If he feels things can be better, get him to tell you what he likes, how he likes it and for how long.
This is actually the secret to great sex. It's working together to find out what feels best. Don't give up or worry too much about it. Just talk to him and find out what you could both do. Whether it's different positions or something else, you will get there with a little verbal communication. [ Vikki27's advice column | Ask Vikki27 A Question ]
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