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fallen for him.
I have fallen for this man that i have known And crushed on for over a year. We worked together(he quit yesterday). I guess you can say he pretty much lead me on. When we worked together He would flirt constantly with me, throw little things at me, when i went on lunch break he would call the store on his cell phone and call me to the front of the store just to talk to me(i didnt realize it was him calling until i got up there) And i would spend the entire lunch break talking with him. When i would tell him something thats bothering me(no matter what it was) he actually listened to every word i said and acted like he cared. Now that is why i have fallen for him.
Problem is hes 27 and im 17. He has a girlfriend that pretty much hates me(im guessing). I saw his girlfriend today and she gave me a reallly evil look. She doesnt know me outside of work. But the one day she came in i was working with him and when he speaks to me he stands pretty close to me. And i bet she didnt like that.
Im really confused. I hate the fact that he quit because i absolutely love working with this guy. Not only because i get to see him but because hes the only person i work well with.
thank you. sorry its so long.
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Wow, thats a pretty bad situation.
Even though you already realize the age difference, its 10 YEARS! Thats a long time. But i know you don't want to hear that.
You can always just be friends with him. I mean, don't just all of a sudden forget about him. Go out to lunch with him every now and then. But you can't let him stop your whole entire world or love life. Put yourself out there and try to meet new people. I know its hard to focus on other people when he just walked out of your work life and stuff. I can relate. & i know its hard but there are other men out there. some times stuff like that happens for a reason. maybe a new guy even better will come in his place at work, or move near you. you never know. everything happens for a reason. Plus you are only seventeen, you have PLENTY of time to find men, and trust me, there are tons out there.
i hope i helped =]
Jess
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