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should i go to these PARTIES? or will it be too awkard..
hey! 16,female!
well this year im a JUNIOR yayy :) haha..
but anyways i dont really have many friends that i hangout with but i talk to alot of different people! i really only hangout with my cousin and we always have fun when we are together but she goes to a different school and i a year younger and i always hangout with her and her friends..since i know all of them good now! well i want to start hanging out with other people from my school in MY grade. its so hard though because i dont know! i never get asked to do anything and im so sick of trying to set something up each time. well im sure i will get invited to a party with all the popular people because i know some of them. but i usually dont go if im ever invited because i would feel so out of place because i dont really "party" that much and its all the girls i dont really like. and if i walked in i wouldnt want them to be like ohh why is she here..and i wouldnt really talk to anyone! i dont know..it would be awkward for me kinda but im thinking if i like...hangout with some of them more i will get to know them better and not be as scared you know!?
what do you think i should do. i want to have fun this year and have lots of friends! i dont really care about being "popular" but i just want to have something to do, meet new people, live up my junior year instead of sitting at home on the computer or at my cousins house every weekend. well thank you :)
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You don't have to drink etc. to have a good time. In fact, the more one drinks the less of a good time and more of a stupid and potentially dangerous time one is likely to have. If you are going with friends then you will have fun, but if you are crashing a party where you don't have friends, then do not go. Suggest a night out with friends that includes dinner, movies, skating, bowling, sport events, all ages dance clubs, etc...these can be really fun if you are with fun people. Don't take it personally that others are not setting these things up. Some of us are leaders and some of us are followers!
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