Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 11:03 pm
15/f
I know I am attractive, smart, funny, outgoing and kind but I do not feel like a guy could be attracted to me. I know there are guys, who I am not interested in, who have a crush on me.. but I don't feel like that is even possible. I haven't dated a guy steadily for more than two years now. Why might I feel this way? How do I overcome it? Do I even need to overcome it?
Thank you :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? simplyxogorgeous answered Thursday September 14 2006, 7:50 pm: well i forgot the site where it had this thing on but it said some guys may seem a bit intimidated by you. but if you know that ur attractive dont be all conceited about it no offence or anything . its just that guys dont really like that quality in a girl. You know try to be more outgoing talk to guys you like or whatever. flirt around... and just dont get upset about all of this. well i really hope i helped in someway :]
tXBLONDiE08 answered Thursday September 14 2006, 6:51 pm: i dont think you need to overcome it... high school is too short to be with one person the whole time... and maybe.. those guys that your looking for are too intimidated of you... my friend is probably the prettiest girl in the entire state.. lol.. and she rarely gets asked out and thats because people think shes intimidating... try talking more and more to the ones you want to be interested in you. [ tXBLONDiE08's advice column | Ask tXBLONDiE08 A Question ]
juicyfruitluvr4ever answered Thursday September 14 2006, 8:44 am: I feel the same way but yes it is possible. The first time anyone ever liked me I said "What's wrong with them?" I thought I was the ugliest person in the world. It turns out that they actually did like me, nothing was wrong with them, and they liked being around me. You might feel like this because your doing what I did your bringing yourself down. To overcome it just give them a chance and see where it goes for you. I don't think you need to seriously overcome it just try to stop thinking it's impossible for someone to like you. [ juicyfruitluvr4ever's advice column | Ask juicyfruitluvr4ever A Question ]
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