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From one wiccan to another, I need help!


Question Posted Tuesday September 12 2006, 10:36 pm

I don't want a love spell, or links to them.
I have a love in mind that I'd love to be mine, but I don't want to bind them to me against their will, so no flat-out love spells, please. What I'm really looking for are spells to increase my visibility- that is, I want him to notice me without making myself look like a whore. I just want to stand out to him. Any spells or invocations that you see helpful would be GREATLY appreciated. Thank you.
Blessed be,
-Lost witch


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cailoisa answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 6:57 pm:
I'm not wiccan, but I am new age. And I don't have a spell, but I do have a meditation (which is basically a spell anyway).

Find a quiet place without interruptions. I guess it would depend on your wiccan persuasion if this were outdoors, in a darkened room, or wherever. Set the scene in a way that makes you feel most "powerful;" for example, candles in your strongest color, incense, soft music or nature sounds (or silence), running water like an indoor fountain.

Sit, lounge, lie in a postition that is most comfortable for you. Picture yourself in a crowd. Slowly and deliberately image all the details - smells and sounds, movement, etc. Once the scene is well established, slowly imagine yourself become brighter or glowing. Image everyone around you becoming dimmer or fading. Picture everyone turning to notice you. Once you feel happily as the center of attention, imaging your glow as a tiny point coming from deep inside you. Slowly image it growing larger and brighter, traveling down arms and legs and into your head. Now imagine you carry this glow with you everywhere you go. Oh yeah, the whole thing should take about 30 minutes.

You may have to practice this several times for it to take effect. You should find yourself standing taller and projecting a nicer aura.

If you find this particular meditation isn't helping (or doesn't leave you feeling more noticable after a few tries), change it to reflect your personal needs more.

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