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so if i have sex for the first time and i dont bleed is that


Question Posted Monday September 11 2006, 8:11 pm

ok well i had sex with my boyfriend and well we have been together for a year now and the first time that we had sex i didnt bleed so he thinks that i wasen't a virgin the first time that we had intercourse so what does that mean?are you supposed to bleed on your first time?

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karenR answered Monday September 11 2006, 9:32 pm:
Not everyone will bleed. That is a myth.
Some girls have very thin and fragile hymens
that will break for many reasons not relatted to sex. This is from ivillage.com

Not all women bleed the first time they have sex. The hymen is a membrane at the vaginal opening; it has perforations in it so menstrual blood can escape. Sometimes, there is a large central opening. During first intercourse, the hymen may be stretched, rather than torn -- in such a case, there will be no bleeding. Sometimes if the hymen is stretched the first time one has sex, it may tear and bleed later, during more vigorous intercourse.
Sometimes a virgin will have a torn hymen. The hymen can be torn before first sex by tampon use, gynecological exams, a straddle injury (falling on the crossbar of a bike, for example), or other events. If the hymen is already torn, she will not bleed when she has sex for the first time.

You are a virgin if you have never had sex before. Bleeding does not demonstrate virginity.

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