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What Could Happen!?


Question Posted Monday September 11 2006, 7:02 pm

if you suck someones dick? without a condom. like what COULD happen... i just need to know. would anything happen at all.. he said he has no STDs.. what if he does? please help me out.. i want to know what might happen before i do it. thank you


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Peeps answered Monday September 15 2008, 3:47 am:
Despite what this guy may tell you, if you do not have visual proof by a professional then you cannot go by his word about being STD-free. This means that if he cannot supply you a RECENT paper given to him by a doctor that explains that he has no STDs then you have no way of knowing if he has even been checked.

Even if he has supplied a paper noting that he is STD-free it does not mean it's true. HIV/AIDS has known to take up to 10 years before it has been detected.

For note, even virgins can have STDs. There is a growing number of infants that are contracting STDs from their parents forgetting to wash hands before changing diapers.

Serious oral sex risks include:

1. Herpes is probably the biggest STD risk during oral sex. Both strains of herpes can live in the mouth or the genitals, and particularly during outbreaks (cold sores, herpes lesions) can be passed from one place to the other. More than 50% of a random group of people will have antibodies to the virus (indicating some level of infection). Genital herpes is complicated and uncomfortable. Herpes can be passed on even if no sores are present.

2. Chlamydia and gonorrhea can infect your throat, showing strep like symptoms. These can also infect the eye; eye infections can have serious consequences. Roughly, 80% of women who have chlamydia have no symptoms and it can prevent them from ever having children.

3. HIV can be passed through unprotected oral sex. The infected semen/precum or vaginal fluid must enter the body through a cut or sore in the mouth or esophagus. You may not even be aware you have a cut in your mouth or throat. Some people take up to 10 years to show that they have contracted HIV/AIDS.

4. HPV can be passed during oral sex. HPV has been found on vocal chords. There is no test to find out if a man has HPV and men usually show no symptoms.

5. Syphilis can be passed similar to HIV. Signs and symptoms are indistinguishable from those of other diseases so some people go a long time without knowing they have it. Mothers can pass this onto their babies without knowing it.

6. Hepatitis A is also a risk, but usually only oral-anal contact. Hep A is not a chronic condition like Hep B and C, but can make a person quite sick several weeks.

For a last note, remember that there is NO solution to completely protecting yourself if you are going to engage in this activity. Condoms will not help, despite the logic to it. There is no such thing as "safe" sex so please be aware of the consequences if you feel you can handle them.

Personally, I don't see the joy in giving a guy a blow job once and ending up with a life-long disease for me.
I guess younger people think it's not a big deal.
I'd rather be STD-free, pain-free, and able to have children later in life.

Giving into sexual desires = Jeopardizing your health

If you have any more questions, please feel free to ask me! :)

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Hustle_Rose answered Sunday August 10 2008, 4:08 pm:
Just because he CLAIMS he has no STD'S, that doesn't mean it's true. Until you've seen papers proving that he has been tested, and the test results were clean, do not proceed without a condom. It is possible that you will be infected with an STD.
Even WITH a condom it is still possible, because some STD's, such as herpes, are not just on the penis but on the surrounding area as well.

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