So me and this guy were together but I broke up with him for reasons we both understand. Now, we both really loved each other. His friends said that I hurt him when I broke up with him and that he still likes me alot. I like him again, also, and I really love him and want to be with him again. At our school's football game, we were both talking and flirting and I thought he would ask me out again, but my friend asked him and he said he didnt want to be in a relationship right now. On my part, what can I possibly do to try to get with him? I know sometimes you can't change someones mind but..
TheTeenGirl answered Monday September 11 2006, 4:09 am: I know it's pretty hard to handle your Ex boyfriend's response to you wanting to be with him again, but it sounds like he just needs some time and that's what you should do.
You're right, you can't change someone's mind, but you can at least stop bothering him and live life until him or someone else comes along. I'd tell you to wait for him, but it would be too painful for your to set your heart aside for someone that you may possibly not get back together with.
So on your part, you should accept his answer and move on. If you keep bothering him, he may feel cluttered and stressed out. He knows that you do want to be with him, so if he changes his mind, he knows that you're there.
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