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Losing my virginity
Hi,
I recently had sex for the first time. We had penetrative sex but he did not cum inside me as he was not wearing a condom. Is is still possible to get pregnant. Also, when does someone officially lose their virginity? I was expecting bleeding but there wasn't any. There was however, a little pain and discomfort and I also often felt tense as every 5 mins I felt like I needed to pee. Is this normal? Many thanks for your help!
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No matter what... anytime you have sex you have the chance of getting pregnant.
And if you did have sex, you're not a virgin anymore. Even if you didn't bleed. It's normal. You're lucky.
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You can get pregnant anytime you have sex - no matter what if he cums or not. Obviously if you aren't wearing protection, your chances are much higher. Losing your virginity involves any penetration with a penis & vagina. Some girls will bleed because their hymen isn't broken. & if not, it's possible you already broke it by getting fingered, wearing a tampon, or simply just by exercising. Yes, it's normal to feel discomfort or an urge to pee.
I'm surprised you had sex & you didn't even know what exactly it is. Please educate yourself & use a condom before you open your legs again.
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ther tenseness sounds normal to me, its probably that you were just nervous- but al in all- theres no way tht your body shows that you arent a virgin anymore, but from what you have told me- youre definetely not anymore- blood or not. and most definetely, you can get pregnant that way. dont want to get into too much detail but yes, you can. be careful next time!!!!!!
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Firstly, and most importantly, you should ALWAYS make sure your partner is wearing a condom when having sex. Other than the risk of pregnancy, they protect against infection and disease, so next time, make sure he's wearing one.
Regardless of whether or not he climaxes inside you, when a man is aroused, he producses sperm. As long as he is inside you, yes you can get pregnant. You need to make sure you always remember that because 'pulling out' is NOT an effective method of contraception. The best thing you can do is to ensure you get put on the Pill and use condoms at the same time. This will be the best way to ensure you are protected when having sex.
Someone is considered no longer a virgin after first having sexual intercourse. Although bleeding is common after first having sex, this is caused by breaking the hymen and as the hymen can be broken by normal physical activity (sports etc), bleeding does not always occur.
The paint and discomfort you are referring to is what is known as 'Honeymoon Cystitis'. It is a bacterial infection where the urethra (the tube that carried the urine) becomes inflamed. Unfortunately, the only way to really treat this correctly is by speaking to a doctor and taking a course of antibiotics. In the meantime, however, keep drinking plenty of water to help flush out the bacteria and drink cranberry juice, which will help to neutralise the acidity in the urine, thereby calming the burning sensation.
Don't worry, it is totally normal and usually only happens from time to time.
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