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I just don't get it.


Question Posted Saturday September 9 2006, 8:35 pm

I am In a youth group at my church, and we're are all close like a family. Until a couple weeks ago, and I'm just now finding out a couple days ago. But there is an adult We call him "Womble" hes about 26-27 and hes soo cool and funny, and there is this is this girl he name Is Erika. She Is one of my best friends and she is 15 a couple months away from 16th Both of them are very Christan like and know whats right and not right but Something very wrong has happend Me and my friends at church just can't beleve they ar not friend when me and erika and stephanie all spent the night over josh's house I took her phone and there was this big long messege from womble and she chased me around cause she didn't want me reading it, I didn't read It cause I wanted to respect her privacy and me and stephanie asked her last night what was wrong between them 2 and she wouldnt tell us But she did tell us that they are going to talk only if he talks to her first and I dont blame her we kep askin her questions and she said It was something he said and did kinda but I just wanna know what can I do I dont want them to rueien the relationship. and I know there was nuttin bad in it just a slip up of words. Just HELP ME!

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josephballard4 answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 7:33 pm:
Well I know it's your friend and all but if it wa me I'd investigate not like spy-like but just search like. If this question you asked sounds like the way it sounds your friend could be in danger (rape) please do something don't let it sit back and happen and then fell it's all your fault later. Talk her out of it.

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DearChrissie3737 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 1:28 pm:
Well it sounds like Womble and Erika had something (possibly embaressing) happen between them and don't exactly want to share this with anyone else. And that's okay. She said they were going to talk about it so this means that they want to sort it out. She probably wouldn't have said that if they had no intention of becoming friend's again. I wouldn't worry about it and try not to get to involved because I think that would just make it worse. If you see their friendship is really getting bad then maybe you can help out a little but wait till things settle down. Just let them handle it and have no worries my friend. Please give me feedback on if this helped :-).
Chrissie

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