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Okay so this guy and i have been close for a long time and he came to visit me this summer in texas from west virginia. We ended up liking eachother a lot. We even kissed. But i have a boyfriend. Well he knew that too but we figured it would never work out so one kiss wouldnt hurt but then it ended up being way more than just one kiss. i REALLY like this guy. He told me i was different and that when he went back home things wouldnt change. Well that was a month ago and so last week, he told me that he likes a girl and he was bumbed b/c she couldnt come over like they planned. He says he still loves me but we both know we cant be together b/c of the distance. But i dont think he actually ACTS like he likes me. I got so jealous so i told him i wanted to end it but it hurt so bad. Ive cried myself to sleep for the past three nights. I cant get over him but i told him i have to and in order to do that ive stopped all contact with him and tried as hard as i can not to think about him. Did i make the right choice?? what do i do if i didnt?? What do i say or how do i know that he really DOES love me?? By the way...i still have a boyfriend and i know its bad but im trying to figure out what the heck to do and who i love more and who to be with. I think im just plain confused. Someone help please. I dont want to cry myself to sleep anymore. Thanks.
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Im so sorry this happend to you :( K so let me get this straight you have a bf. you have a guy that you are in love with but he's long distance, you've kissed a couple times and you get jealous when he sees other girls, then you broke up with him (even though you arent actually dating him? did i get that right?) K well thats tough!! First you have to think about your bf. lets call him 1. k if 1 likes/loves you then you have a problem. because you like another guy. I know this sounds like horrible advice, but you have to tell him that you kissed this guy. he deserves to know. if he kissed his ld (long distance) friend and was going behind your back you'd want to know right? talk to him about it. if hes a good guy he can give you some advice too. But if you still have majour feelings for him then you need to stay with him. you made a commitment to him adn not to guy 2(west v. guy)plus you just broke it off with 2. k now to part two of this. i realize that you were jealous and totally over whelmed when u ended it with 2. but you have to apologize no matter what. Guys dont get irrational things like that. When you talk to him be honest and talk about your feelings. Tell him that you feel like it wont work (which it probably wont and then you'll be even more heart broken) and see what he says. This is a really hard situation. And it sucks that you are in it but you have to be true to yourself and listen to your heart. I cant tell you what guy 1 and 2 feel or how you feel. but the way for you to find out is ask. keep communication open. if they are good guys they'll talk back. please let me know how this turns out. I feel really bad that I cant help more. but in the end its up to you. i hope everything works out. you probably wont get exactly what you want but it enevitable. good luck!!
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