Question Posted Saturday September 9 2006, 10:56 am
okay so at school there is this girl who is extremely mean to me. we used to be friends but she sed i "changed" over the summer. she started rumors that i make fun of specail needs kids and asked people to beat me up. she told me she is going to make my life hell and hire a murdurer to kill me =o she also blamed me for prank calls at her house and why her and one of my friends arent friends anymore. we have gotten into fights before but were forced to become friends.
she gives me dirty looks and bought THE SAME exact clothes as me at abercrombie so everyone thinks im copying her even though IM NOT! i cant buy new clothes because my mom sed that she spent enough money already and i have to weait till crhistmas.
so my question is.. how do i deal with her? like what should i do when she gives me dirty looks and makes fun of me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? angie91 answered Saturday September 9 2006, 10:03 pm: hey!
yeah that sucks. I was just recently involved in something of those sorts. Heres what happend to me: There was this girl J and she was more of a freind of freinds we were in the same class for the first time and getting along well then we started to fight, she calle dmy frineds names and made fun of physical problems they have.everytime i turned aroun she was there calling me horrible untrue names infront of everyone. then i broke down. My teachers didnt get involved but somehow it ended. and one day yours will too. i no it sucks right now but for the next little bit you have to suffer through it. talk you your other friends, parents teachers anyone you can trust to support you but as far as the clothes. who cares? just as many people probably think shes copying you. Besides if someone cares what you wear, then theyre an idiot. just ignore the girl. i know how mean girls can be but i guess you just have to deal with it. one day she will get bored. and who ever sticks beside you really are your true friends. you can also try to talk to her about it. Hey! I have an idea. it sounds stupid. but you can just apologize. HAHA it will completely scare her. she totally wont be expecting it!! even if you dont think that she deserves an apology it makes you look like the good guy and everyone will be on your side. i know it sounds weird but in situations like this is takes weird gestures to make an effect. if it works then talk to her and see if she wants to either be friends again or just stop hating you. it might work might not. good luck! [ angie91's advice column | Ask angie91 A Question ]
Crystal8 answered Saturday September 9 2006, 4:58 pm: There are always going to be girls like that. Your best bet is to just know that your better than her. When she gives you a dirty look just smile at her. It will make her mad and if you ignore her. When she mouths you/yells at you just sit and listen she will get tired of it not bothering you. Hope it helps! =] [ Crystal8's advice column | Ask Crystal8 A Question ]
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