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What is the deal?
I have this guy friend that lives in another state. I have known him for about 3 years now. We were seeing each other a little bit (dating wise) when I went to visit him last year and we were both into each other but we have never made anything official because of our distance. After I came back home, we still continued to talk and he even told me he wanted to see me again when I could visit next. Well I got busy this summer and we haven't spoken in a few months. I recently have been trying to get a hold of him, but it is wierd. First, I emailed him asking him if he still used the email address. I waited a couple weeks but no response. Then last week, I called him and got his voicemail, then I called again and he picked up the phone and I said, "Nathan?" and then he goes, "I'm sorry but you have the wrong number." I called him from my new cell phone so I immediately assumed he didn't know it was me because he didn't know of the number I was calling him from. So I called him for the third time and got his voicemail again, but I left a message. I waited a few days, and still I got no response. Then a couple days ago, I texted him asking him if he got my message, and again, no response. I'm wondering if he is blowing me off. It is hard for me to believe he is, because that's just not how he is. I mean, he's 24 years old and really mature...so I don't think he would be deliberately doing it, but in the back of my mind, I suspect that maybe he is. And I'm really confused that he told me I had the wrong number, because I am confident that it was him who picked up the phone. I don't know what the deal is. I want to call him again, but I'll feel desperate. I didn't do anything to get him mad at me either...so I don't know. Should I try to contact him again?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
My advice: don't try anymore. You may like him, but the guy needs to come to you. If it really was him, he'll come around. It may also be that he has a girlfriend and doesn't want anyone to get in the way or distract him. I'm sure he's moved on obviously, you should too. If he wants you back, then he'll call you. Otherwise, just hook up with someone else who is good to you.
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