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Love Triangle. Sorta. Ok, square?
Okay, this is really really long. But I promise: spelling, grammar, and all that stuff will be easy to read. So we shall move on.
I'm in 9th grade and I'm 14/f. I am bisexual but I haven't come out yet since 99% of the people at my school are homophobic and about 50% of them will jump me =P. Anywhos there's this girl named...let's call her Julie. Julie likes me and I like her. There are two problems though. 1. She likes PDA (Public displays of affection) And that won't be good if I went out with her since the school will find out. and 2. She and my friend Kayte went out together last year.
And then there is James and Keith. They are both in my biology and history class together. Now, we haven't done gorup work or partner work in History yet but we have in Biology. 2 infact. The first time I worked with James and the second time I worked with Keith. James was like "Mia, you ditched. Go away." In a not serious way but more of a friendly way.
I like Keith and I'm pretty sure he likes me and I also like Stephen but he only likes me as a friend. See, I want to work with Keith because I want to go out with him but I would also like to work with James because he's my good friend and I want to be best friends with him. Not to mention that he has a rock band which is really awesome and I'm sure he'll make it big. But that's not the only reason I want to be friends with him. So the next time we have a group or partner work in Biology I want to work with James but I'm not sure if he'll want to with me. He jokes a lot and I can barely tell if he's kdding or not so that's also a problem
Sooo it's like I like Julie and she likes me while I also like Keith and James. Julie also likes James and Keith likes me. Confusing? Yes I know. So, what shall I do about this matter? Should I stick with Keith or James or if James doesn't care alternate between them for group/partner activities and as for Julie, should I tell her I'm bisexual or not and if I should should I go out with her and see what happens? And what is a easy way to get Keith's screen name without sounding like I'm stalking or like him? Like what shall I say to ask him for his screen name casually? Sorry this is so long =X
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I think that you should go out with james for right now. it sucks that your school is homophobic, and I think until they start to except more couples you might want to stay in the closet. thats just me, especailly since you are bi. if you were a lesbian it might be different because you would be going against your true feelings. and if your consions tells you that you should date julie or something then date her. you have to go out with whom ever you eel more comfortable with. this is a tough discision but you have to decide whether or not you are going to come out of the closet or not. this is really up to you. good luck. i hope this helps.
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I really don't have experience with this cause i'm straight. But i think i may be able to try to help yu. I say that you talk to james first. Tell him you value their friendship and hope you guys can continue to be friends. Also, tell Julie your bisexual. You'll never get together if yu don't. Then, casually give Kieth your screenname. That way he decides if he wants to im you or not. As for the partner thing, alternating seems like a good idea. Wish I could have helped yu more<33EAS
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