Question Posted Thursday September 7 2006, 5:48 pm
Okay. So i really do love my boyfriend. And when i tell him i love him he always says something like "yeah right" or "sure you do" or "babe i know you dont love me" do you think he is just fishing for compliments or really serious. i love him more than anything. how can i convince him of that. please help
ItzMzManda answered Thursday September 7 2006, 6:38 pm: hey there!
i dont think that your boyfriend is ready to tell you he loves you too. he might even be afraid and sometimes guys are just flattered and dont know what else to say. next time ask him how he feels about you and ask him if he really knows that you love him. when you tell him that you love him and he says those things then just ask him why he is always sayin it because it really bothers you. just talk to him about things because then he'll know. give him sometime to think about things and dont force him to say he loves you. hope this helps!
megaronix3 answered Thursday September 7 2006, 6:12 pm: He might be afraid of commitment, or maybe he doesn't feel the same way. Maybe he's trying to stop you from feeling that way because he's scared of an intense relationship. Next time say "I know how I feel. Why are you being weird about it?" Call him on the spot. [ megaronix3's advice column | Ask megaronix3 A Question ]
adviceforlife answered Thursday September 7 2006, 5:58 pm: It's possible that he is fishing for compliments. However, you should consider that maybe he is either afraid to say he loves you too or maybe he doesn't at all. Not to discourage you but I know how it is. You should talk to him about it and tell him that you really do love him and that it upsets you when he says those things. Tell him the truth that comes from your heart. And for any other problems, dont forget to *Ask Ashley* [ adviceforlife's advice column | Ask adviceforlife A Question ]
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