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Hi, I have a girlfriend named Dorothy. well, i dont know if i even have a girlfriend anymore. At the beginning of the summer we were completely for each other than she went on Vacation back to her home country in Vietnam. We emailed and i called her every once in awhile, but as the summer went by it took her longer and longer to Email me back eventually she dint even respond back to any of my emails.
At first i wasnt mad. I was thinking shes probly having alot of fun its okay. but when she got back i called her many times no answer. We're in this club and we had a meeting and i tried to talk to her and she would only answer me. Now i dont even know whats going on anymore. Are we still together? Or what?
People have been telling me to Just talk to her but i cant even get a hold of her should i just give space?
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well, it seems like something happened while she was on vaction in vietnam. maybe she met a guy or something happened that caused her to rethink having a relationship with you? It looks like she's starting to avoid you for some reason.
in this situation, giving space definitely doesnt look like a good idea. If you give her too much 'space', you might end up distancing yourselves too much. Whomever told you to talk to her was right. You should definitely try to talk to her, even if she's avoiding you. By giving her space, you still dont know whats going on and at the same time risk losing her.
My advice would be try to find a way to talk to her. Even if she avoids you, persist in trying to get a hold of her... she cant really run forever. Talking to her in person is best. Try doing it before or after the club meeting? Or maybe before or after school.
It seems like things might not work out though, so dont be too depressed if things dont happen the way you want them to, ok?
I hope things work out for you; tell me how it goes. If you need anymore help or if my advice just sucked, feel fre to messag me!
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