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Attractiveness
Quite frankly people, I am an advisor here, but I can not give myself advice...ha, so here is my question, I am a lonely man, and I feel it time to get another relationship going, but I'm not at all good looking...and I don't know how to approach a girl...any advice?
-JT
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You are lucky to be a guy, because women don't as often judge a guy by his looks alone. We tend to see the whole picture and fall in love with the whole man. My advice is to befriend many women and not pressure anyone of them. Chances are that one of them will find you endearing and even if you are not Brad Pitt, your real charm will surface and win her over.
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OK, I have the same problem and the opposite problem at the same time! I am an attractive girl but, like you, very lonely. So, go up to the cute girl sitting alone, and talk to her about herself. Ask her what she thinks about something. If she can't come up with anything, she will say, "I don't know, what do you think?" Have a good answer. Girls are always thinking. She will appriciate the attention, I promise! She is probably as lonely as you. Just start with a friendly hi and nice smile. It is what is inside that counts...
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Try joining some clubs, do charity work, if you have left school, try an evening class. Charity work is a good one as you will meet like minded people.
It should not matter how you look, the right girl wouldn't care. If you find something where you have a common interest she would be able to find out more about the real you, which is always better than going on looks alone.
If you do this and meet someone, get to know them first, then things should progress from there.
Hope that helps and good luck.
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