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Lazy boyfriend Posted Thursday August 31 2006, 11:21 pm
15 f missouri if that helps
ok so i have been dating this guy for over 4 months now, and things have been going good, except latley he won't talk to me or anything. He says that it is just because he is tired, which is totally understandable, but he hasn't talked to me in like over a week (since school started) and always blaming it on he is tired. I am kinda confused on what to do, i like him alot, i just want to be able to talk to him and have this relationship that we had before. He plays football and that takes alot of time, but you think he would even be able to say hi in between classes or something. I dunno i think that is all the info needed, if you need more leave something in my inbox. but please help me i don't know what to do
~Ash
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i think you need to tell him everything you just wrote down. thats the only way youll know for sure how hes feeling. just confront him. if hes to tired to alk about something hat really bothering you then maybe you should reconsider the relationship ]
you need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend. just be like," i know you're tired and football takes alot of time out of your hands. but i want to have the relationship we used to, where we talked and stuff. i mean, i miss you and i don't even get to say hi to you in the hallways or anything." [ or something like that ] Just let him know what you're feeling. Hopefully, you two'll try and figure out a schedule to talk and stuff and try and resolve this whole matter, but if he doesn't put forth much of an effort, i would consider taking a break from him or something, so hopefully he'll either realize what might happen and try to fix it then. but if nothing still happens, i would just break up with him. as much as you like him, you need a guy who'll put forth an effort and will want to talk to you and try to find the time to. i hope i helped. ]
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