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how do i?
hi im a 15 year old guy that likes this 15 year old girl ive told her in the past how i feel but she says she just wants to b friends and not ruin our great friendship..i told her theres nothin to worry about and i wouldnt ever let anything get between us...ive tried to go out withb other girls but none of them compare i want to tell her and get her to change
Thanks in advance for your help
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Well, you can't really get people to change. They have to decide if they want to. So just try talking with her about it. Be like,"I know you said you're afraid our friendship might get ruined, but trust me. I would never let that happen. Even if we did break up which I pray we never would, we would still be great friends because I'd want to have you around still, then nothing at all. And you never know. If we date, our friendship could even become greater and improve. Just please, consider it and try and givve us a chance to be something greater than just "great friends"." [ or something like that ] And jsut give her some time to think about it, and don't pressure her or anything. If she still sticks with her answer, just continue being friends. There's really nothing more you can do to change her mind.
I hope she says yes though, and I hope I helped.
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First off, you cannot change anyone. And you cannot help anyone who doesnt want help. Before trying to get her to go with you..make sure she feels the same way as you. If she doesnt dont run her off by pressuring her. (That may be how she feels.) Give it time..if she doesnt come around then just continue to be friends. Good luck.
-Nelle
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