Question Posted Wednesday August 30 2006, 12:18 am
Ive been dating this guy for about a month, well weve only known each other for a month but like the second time we hung out with totally hit it off and started dating.. but his past realtionships he comes off really strong and always thinkst he girl is THE ONE. And he's not a virgin and i guess you could say he's rather experienced. & well weve only known each other for a month and i know most couples would probably have done alot but weve only been kissing and holding hands, he keeps dropping hints though that he wants more.. and hes been patient and stuff its just most teenage relationships end and i dont know if i should wait or what i mean he says he loves me so much and hes only ever been nice to me its just he was like that to all of his other gfs i cant find out if hes genuie or not and just wants to have a gf so bad and i was just at the right place at the right time goodness what do i do!!!
If he thinks all of his ex girlfriends were "the one" but they broke up, chances are that the pattern might continue. But thats not to say that he doesn't really love you. There's no way to really tell, you just have to go with what your gut tells you. If you don't wanna do anything with him, tell him. If he really loves you, then he'll understand and wait. A lot of teenage relationships do end, you're right. Beacuse we're all so young right now and we always want to see what else is out there. But I'm not saying to throw him away just yet. Give him a chance if you think he really likes you. Sometimes people change, and maybe he's changed now. But it seems to me like if he's had many ex gf's who he thought were all "the one" and has had sex with a lot of people, then maybe that's all he's looking for. Who knows. Do what you think is right.
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