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conversational skills agian


Question Posted Tuesday August 29 2006, 7:08 pm

but how do i get him to like not interogate me? i talked about me enough and it was overwhelming. mostly becuase there was this other guy there and both of them just kept criticizing. like "o my gosh you don't like music what's wrong with you?" or "what do you just stay at home and do nothing" or he'd ask what do you like to do and the other guy would be all "schoolwork" right away just becuase he thinks i'm a nerd. the guy asking really wasn't that bad i just don't want him asking anymore.

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LiSaxOBaBii answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 8:31 pm:
The reason this is upsetting you is because you're buying into what he has to say. He's making you think there's something wrong with you when there really is not. You're giving him the ability to make you feel threatened. Don't allow that to happen. You need to accept yourself and give people a chance to see who it is you really are..There is no amount of advice that could control a person's actions, so what he does is uncontrollable by me, but how his words affect you is your choice.

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