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mixed signals


Question Posted Monday August 28 2006, 7:47 pm

Okayy, Welll, I'm 14/f. This is long but worth it! :) Alright SO..! Today was HS orientation for students at my school. and yeah, it was great because we saw everyone & seen how everybodys changed so much over the summer.. and we compared schedules and all that. well my crush was there and he said hi to me which i think is a first. i saw him once over the summer at an icecream place when i was with my family and it was bad because i didnt expect to see him there, i was in sweats and a hoodie, and no makeup, which is unusal because im pretty high maintenance i think. and i was super embarassed because obviously i didnt expect to see him, and even more because he saw me and then got out of there so fast. so i know that he wasnt exactly hyped up to have seen me there! and today he kinda mentioned that he was like "i saw u at the icecream place" and i was like too much in awe that he was actually talking to me that I just kind of couldn't talk. lol. well yeah my friends saved me by talking to me so it all worked out. anyways, i dont know if he likes me or not. i mean i have had a crush on him since last year, and he knows because my friend told him, but he really didnt have a reaction. and now hes kinda trying to talk to me and stuff. but then again i dont know what to think. what should i do, give up? i really am lost i dont know if hes just being friendly or if he likes me. well thanks for any advice you can give. xoxo.

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ductape_n_roses answered Monday August 28 2006, 8:12 pm:
My dear, saying "Hi" and "I saw you at the icecream place" doesn't exactly scream out I LOVE YOU. GO OUT WITH ME

Just be yourself around him. Don't get choked up or try to fit yourself into this mold that he wants. Be yourself.

Get a little more aquainted with him. Invite him to see movies, go bowling or something like that with your friends nad his friends too if you want. Just act casual and if he's into that idea of going as a group and is having fun and flirts with you (keep in mind that talking isn't necesarily flirting) then go for it (ask him out). I mean who says that girls can ask guys out?

And btw, you should get those make up off your face. They cause breakout, enlarge pores, makes your skin go bleh in the long run, causes wrinkles easily, etc.

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