so theres this guy i've been friends with for like almost 4 years now and hes one of my really good friends. and we kinda been on and off liking eachother until last year when it all stopped. but i dont think i really stopped and i dont know if he did. but when were around eachother we flirt alot and stuff and i get a feeling that i really like him. i wanna know if he feels the same way but im too nervous to say anything so i dont know how to handle the situation. and i dont wanna ruin our friendship either because i love having him as a friend but sometimes i wish it was more. can you please help??
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Alexandkendra answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 10:39 am: I actually used to have the same problem as well, seriously.
What sucks , is boys always want a friend thats a girl and sometimes they like her as more and sometimes they dont , but you'll never know unless you ask.
Whats good is, he will treat you like his bestfriend, since he is your really good friend he will share all his secrets and stuff with you , and he'll have full trust in you , so it will seem like your going out with him, even though your not.But if you give it time, he might realize that he wants it to be more, so time is everything ,so treat him like a good friend now but keep waiting and someday it might all change.
Also, you might even change and find someone new.
I liked one of my friends for 3 years, he called me all the time and i was always with him and one day i just got over him and liked someone else, so you never know what could happen.
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