My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 weeks and we had sex for the first time last night. I was really iffy about it for a really long time and he kept comforting me, telling me it was okay and that we didn't have to do it. He ended up comfortimg me so much that it actually happened. It was my first time, but it wasn't his. It didn't hurt and there was no blood last night, but when I woke up this morning, I was bleeding alot. I ended my period two days before, so I don't think it would be because I hadn't finished. What could this mean?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Vikki27 answered Tuesday August 29 2006, 8:22 am: When I had sex for the first time, I also didn't bleed until the next day. This is really a common experience when losing your virginity, especially if you stay laid down afterwards. I must admit, I'm not totally savvy on how this works, but have you noticed that when you are on your period, you bleed less during the nights than you do during the day? Well a similar thing can happen when you lose your virginity. When your hymen breaks, it does allow the blood through but in some cases, it doesn't exit the body until the following day.
As someone has already mentioned, there is a chance that there was just a little blood left in you following your period and the intercourse caused it to come out.
The other possibility is that he might have been a little rough, which could have caused you to bleed. However, under these circumstances, the blood normally leaves the body straight after so I would put my guess as the first suggestion.
Little_silent_voices answered Monday August 28 2006, 4:28 pm: First off yu could be one of those big bleaders like me
but also sometimes when yu have sex right before or right after yur period it can tend to make yu bleed for an extra couple days or make yu start yur period sooner.. so dont be worried about it but if this continues happening everytime yu have sex I suggest maybe going to planned parenthood or a private clinic so yur parents dont have to know about it. [ Little_silent_voices's advice column | Ask Little_silent_voices A Question ]
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