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um, well i'm confused about my love life...


Question Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 5:23 pm

ok i have a boyfriend. i just turned 14 and i am female but its his first relationship and he isnt really expierienced...but then theres this guy on myspace ive had a crush on for years..but thts why were friends on myspace, cuz he moved a while ago... ='( but, he put me as his 2nd top friend and has been showing an interest in me...and hes wicked nice and has everything i want! and then theres another guy...a hot guy i have alot of interest in...who also has been showing interest in me and is a childhood friend.

i dont know wht to do, and i was hoping to get some help..please help me!!!


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LM answered Friday August 25 2006, 5:22 pm:
You're 14. Not many guys your age are going to have a lot of experience. Is there something you HATE about the guy you're dating right now? Try not to focus on his lack of experience with girls, and instead on the reasons you probably liked him to begin with- personality, sense of humor, et cetera. The guy you're friends with on myspace, it seems as though he wants to stay that way, since you've been friends for a long time and he hasn't said anything to you, evne on myspace. As for the other guy, is the only reason you like him because he's attractive? Good looks last for about two weeks, tops. If that's the basis of your relationship, its not going to last long, I'll be honest with you. Besides, ywould you be willing to dump your boyfriend for either of these guys? Your bofriend is showing an interest in you too.. BY GOING OUT WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!

So as for what you should do, I'd say stay with your current boyfriend. You both like each other enough to go out. and you're 14. See how this relationship works out. And keep those other two guys on your radar, but don't dump someone who likes you for someone's whos better looking. That's kinda shallow.

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