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inlove?
heyy. I'm 14/f.
Okayy. I know, that you just 'know' when you're inlove with someone. But, I feel like I know, that I'm inlove with this boyy. Like, wherever I go, the first kid I see, reminds me of him. Like does everyone do that? & like, I'm always thinking about him.. & like, I could go on forever. But anyways, I'm usually not this type of person. I'm usually the type of person.. thay says.."Oh, no you can't be inlove at 14. You know when you're older. You just really like them, or are obbessed with them." ..& I usually tell myself that too. But, this time.. I don't. I dated him awhile back, like last yearish. I've never gotten over him...
He broke up with me then. [I don't know if that would help why I like him so much in anyway?] We've had... moments. Hes said things to me, that could knock a girl off her feet, type thing. But, I don't have all the confidence, in the world in myself. So, sometimes.. I think he says it to everyone? Sometimes.. I feel like he really likes me too. & other times... I'm not sure. When you love someone, this is what I've also always thought & said.. when you love someone, it takes two people? One person can't love someone.. it's like peanut butter & jelly. But, of couse.. I don't know if he likes me. Theres things that have happened.. that I believe its fate. I really don't know.
I guess, what I really need advice on, is well.. helping me out & telling me, what you think of the situation. & if I should move on.. or not. & how to get over him. I'm not sure if I so much need advice.. or just someone to talk to me. & tell me what they think. Just pleasse answer. Thankyouuu.
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I understand what you're going through. You can fall in love at any age. I know this sounds rediculous, but at age 11 (almost 12) I fell in love with this boy. We were both very mature for our age, we didn't play tag or anything, we had pretty intelligent conversations, and he could make me laugh. It took me a long time, but I got over him. I told one of my best friends that I thought I was in love with him, and she started to laugh. Again, I wasn't even 12. I understand how you're feeling. But, let me say this- 5 years later, I still haven't felt the same way about anyone else but him.
If you really feel this close to this person, tell him how you feel. Don't tell him everything at first, because frankly you might scare him, guys are weird like that, but tell him you really care for him and you're wondering if he feels the same way for you. And if he doesn't... its his loss.
If it turns out this guy doesn't share your feelings, you don't exactly have to move on, but you do have to be open to other people. Its good to remember, just don't dwell. It took me a long while, almost a year, but you will eventually move on.
Good luck to you. =]
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no one can really tell you if you should move on or not. it probably wouldn't be a bad idea since you broke up. talk to him about it. if you guys can be friends, that's not a bad thing. no one can give you an answer for this. it's totally your decision. let him know how you feel. i was in love at age 13 and were still together & its been years. soo yeah, juss talk to him and truly see how he feels. if he doesn't have feelings towards you, maybe juss try moving on & being friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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