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A lonely teenage life
Ok well I've liked this boy for lets say 5 years now pretty pathetic i know well anyway there is no one to ask him for me telling him is deffinatly out of the question because the problem is hes my best friend! so what to do i feel empty every day that i dont tell him a little bit of me dies i just want to know should i never tell him move on wait longer date someone else see how i feel i dont know i need help please! Ive turned down lots of great guys just because i like my best friend so blease HELP ME!! Thanks alot for those who answer
confused chick
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Well, you really seem to have strong feelings for this guy, so I would probably at least flirt a little and see what happens. And I know that you said telling him is out of the question, but what is the worst that can happen? Just let him know that you really like him, but if he doesn't feel the same way, you hope you guys can remain best friends because you'd rather be best friends than nothing at all. Because you need to take action. You've already waited 5 years, you can't pass up every other guy for another 5 more. But if you're absolutely NOT wanting to tell him, then I might want to go and try and find another guy and see if you like him and see what happens with him. But if you're still finding yourself liking him, then I think you really ought to tell him, or at least have someone else tell him for you, because you'll always have to wonder "what if". And you never know, he secretly might like you too. You just have to take the chance and find out. I hope I helped. <3
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If your feelings about this guy are that strong, maybe you could drop hints to see how he feels. Flirt with him a little or see if he wants to hang out with you. Besides, if he finds out you like him, whats the worst that could happen. And, if you don't ever tell him you'll regret it later. There is also a possibility that he likes you too and is scared to tell YOU! What if that happened and you guys went your whole lives never knowing how the other felt? Just let him know that you really care about him somehow and that you think about him a lot. I know you said that was out of the question, but it's worth a try. Maybe you could write him a note and tell him that you think you may have a crush on him. Maybe not let him know that you've been totally in love with him for the past 5 years, but that lately you might have become somewhat interested in him and see what he says about it.
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