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hes bringing her down
hey! this is a question to help a friend!
rite my friend has got this new boyfriend who she met on holiday since she came home they have been talking to each other on msn but he is really getting her down as he thinks that the only way he can be liked is to get sympathey coz he hasnt got enough mates and he wants to end his life coz coz its not rite and whenever she askes if hes ok hell say no!! so then sh gets upset coz he tells her whats up with him wen i think he should just get over his self and enjoy his life while he has it!! i was just wonderin if you have any advice on what she could say to him i have tried tellin her but shes to soft on him but she does agree with me i was gona just tell him all in 1 go that what i think hes duin is selfish n all but i duno how to put it help!!
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Ok, I am in the same exact situation. If she has tried to talk to him before, and it didnt help, I think the relationship might need a break for a little while until he gets his feelings worked out. If she hasnt tried talking to him, she should ask him why he wants to end his life exactly, and try to understand his point of view. What I did with my boyfriend, was talk to him everyday about it and tell him hes a great guy, he doesnt need to end his life, we will be together one day and you will be happy you didnt end your life etc. etc. She should keep him happy so he doesnt do anything like that, but dont deny her own needs. If he keeps it up even after she tried, maybe she should move on. If he loves her enough, he will see shes trying her best to help and talk and keep the relationship, if he doesnt see that, she deserves someone better. So if all of that didnt make sense, basically she should talk to him and tell him honestly how she feels. He should understand, if not, its time to move on. Hope that helped some.
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