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Do you think I should dump him?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for more than a month now we're both 16... We haven't had the best relationship at least in my eyes... but then again it is our "first" relationship with the same sex... Because once school starts for me it'll be hard for us to see each other, should I ask him if he would like to be in an open relationship, and if he says yes should I dump him? My friends tell me I should since no one is usually comfortable with their partner being with someone other than them UNLESS they themselves have already been considering parting ways and/or have found someone they would be interested in "fooling around" with. Some advice please, thanks
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Yes, you really should ask him that to see if he's really a nice guy,if he saids yes you should because he'll play you,land up breaking your heart,you could find someone way better than that if that's the case, you deserve to be treated with respect, and to be loved.
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Better to be honest about your expectations now, before someone gets hurt or he hears it from someone els. If having multiple partners is something that appeals to you, then let your boyfriend know that although you really dig him, you realize that at your age you can't be exclusive. I think you have a realistic attitude. Just make sure to practice safe sex, as multiple partners means multiple risks.
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I think you should do what you think is best. If you aren't going to be able to see him while you're going to school, then I don't see the point in being together. If you aren't able to see him at all, what's the point of having a boyfriend?
I wouldn't suggest having an open relationship with him, because that wouldn't be good. People could start rumors and you could be known as an 'easy' girl because of something like this. You know how some people are. And the fooling around bit isn't a good idea, either. That is how girls get names and I wouldn't want you to be in that category.
I suggest just ending it. You never know you could find someone new while at school that would be great for you. Just keep your eyes open and never settle for one guy. You have to play the field before you get tied down. ♥
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