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well im 14 and my bf is 15 turning 16 soon. we've been going out for a good eight months, and we've become really close, our relationship is amazing. he does everything in the world for me, and noone or anything could ever explain how much he means to me or i mean to him. its just that sometimes he gets alittle bit to attached. like i feel like i need some space, or he needs to become less attached. because it has not only been me who has brought up that he is constantly all over me, my friends have also brought it to my attention. then like sometimes not all the time, i think about his friend who i find apeeling at times, but not all the time. i mena i find him attractive and fun to talk to. like if i hook him up with other girls i kind of get jealous. almost as if i wanted my byofriend, and my byofriends friend both for myself. im unsure, so please help me ?
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Well actually at 14 you should be dating all kinds of different guys. Its really a little young to just be dating one guy.
Your current boyfriend probably really likes you. Some guys his age are just a little immature. He wants to let everyone know he has a girlfriend.
Just talk to him and tell him you are really uncomfotable with all the clingy stuff. Especially in public. Tell him you mean no offense but could he please tone it down a little.
As for his friend. You probably do have an attraction to him. There isn't really anything wrong with that since as I said you are young and will be attracted to many guys before you meet Mr Right. If you feel you need some space and need to date more guys just tell your boyfriend you feel that you are to young to be tied to one guy. He will either let you go and remain friends or he won't. If his friend want to take you on a date then go for it. Just beware that the friend may not want to date you if you break up with his friend. Some guys are weird that way.
Good luck. :)
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