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Does he not love me the way he did...its only the 3rrd day o


Question Posted Saturday August 19 2006, 12:42 am

My best friend (he's a guy) is goin to a differnet high school then me, and my otha best friend (she is a gurl) is goin to the same school as him. I am best friends wit both of them...and are closer to them individually then they are to each other. We usually talk everyday....but this week he started school and I didnt talk to him wednesday, thursday and Friday..i saw him on Friday...and we talked forr a while...makin me secure that we were still #1s...I asked him y he didnt call me ..and he said he was shoveled wit homework ( which is true becuz, he wasnt the only one who said that from that school), but today...i was talkin the same gurl best freind...and while I was on tthe phone wit her...my guy best friend called her.....does that mean I am not his #1 anymore....am I now his second pic....he didnt call me at all on Friday either....We are sooo close....it was so apparnet when we talkin afta I saw him on Friday...but now I have second thoughts...becuz he called my friend...and neva called me...I dont want to think we are growin apart...and I dont want to think in the matter of tree days...he is not interested anymroe....but I dont know what to think...PLZ HELP!!!

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Additional info, added Sunday August 20 2006, 9:57 am:
I saw him at curch on Saturday, and we barely talked...he walked by me so many times....I think he was in a bad mood, cuz he causght attitude wit other people..but Im worried whats up iwth us..what do i do.

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MelLeDisko answered Saturday August 19 2006, 2:31 am:
This could mean anything. He could be calling her for homework help, to just talk to her, asking uh, if there's a test tommorrow. But, I'm not saying you're not #1 anymore, but they could just be getting more close with them being at the same school and all. I would just call him one night and be like,"Hey, I miss you. We really gotta hang out soon it sucks that we don't get to talk as much. Anything happening lately?" And just talk to him. You'll still be #1, but she could be too. You can both be his bestfriend. And you can think of this in a positive way, also. You guys could all hang out together and just have a good time and have fun. Just keep talking to him and make sure to keep the friendship going and everything. Maybe even suggest helping him with his homework or help him study for a test. [ Instead of doing it over the phone, you could go over his house after school and hang out for a bit and have fun and then later help him study ]. I hope I helped. IM me or leave another message if you ever need more help! I hope I helped though! <3




P.S. My screename is Mel le disko.

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