|
More info
Ok, here is a little bit more detailed information... Well, I am 24 and she is 14, We met online, been talking for awhile and joked with eachother at first, like the 'cyber lovers' and more... but we was laughing, having a good time online, talking every night.... sharing details about eachother, well we decided to meet and see if we would like eachother still, she said her frend(s) and sister would love me, so we went to a movie, I first spotted them, so I went down and said Hi to all 3 of them, So, we went in, she said I had to pay for her friend, and she would pay for her and her sister, but I was going to pay for all of them, and get them some popcorn and a drink, but well, she goes 'So you picked a chick flick huh?' and only reason I chose it was because that's what I thought all of them would enjoy out of the list of movies, and I was trying to talk to her, but she would not even look at me or talk to me after that comment, so when we went to pay for the movie, I forgot to say I would pay for all then, and was kind of nervous, so she paid for her and her sister, and I paid for her friend, and after that, I was going to pay for the popcorn n drinks but she wasn't around, so I forgot about it, finally she came back and we went into the movies, she walked by her sister and her friend was by me somewhat after awhile she was infront of me so we go down the movies, her friend says me first then her, etc, etc. for seating, so I go in first sit down and then they do... she doesn't say a word to me, has her back towards me, and then her n her sister go to the bathroom, probably to talk about me, see what her sister says about me, after seeing me, so her friend is talking to me, then comes and sits next to me... and we talk somewhat, but I kept looking back to see if she is coming back, she finally comes back and tells her friend to move out of her seat, so she sits down along with her sister, and still.... avoids me and has her back towards me... and I am not about to talk to her when her back is towards me, while she is off laughing and talking with her sister, so then her and her friend go to the bathroom a few minutes later... so I ask myself, I wonder what they are talking about... so she comes back and she is laughing with her friend n sister... and then she says one thing to me... "Yeah, a couple guys was flirting with us' ... so yeah, that didn't make me any happier.. so again she is close to her sister and her sister I think says "hey, go lean over on the other side' and pushes her towards me, but she again goes closer to her sister or squints down in her chair... of course the movie sucked, and I wasn't really paying attention as I was having a lot of things on my mind going on, and don't know what to think or say, so the movie ends, and she gets up and like fast walks wayyyyy ahead of me, and again her friend is closer to me then she is, she is like 15 feet away from me, so we go out to the main lobby and she's all laughing and joking and playing with her sister n friend, again, nothing is even said to me, and now she went home, and she blocked me from online messenger, took me off her friend list on myspace, and says her sister told her not to talk to me ever, but I talked with her sister and she told me she was sorry and she says 'just don't break her heart' but I didn't break hers, but I felt mine was a bit broken, and I was so confused and stuff at that time, I had a major breakdown and she was gone for 2 weeks, I tried texting her, and nothing.. she didn't reply, and I was talking with someone and I think she don't want to be with me, don't want to talk or be friends .. don't want anything to do with me, so should I just stop talking to her, erase all the e-mails and text messages I keep reading each night, ... should I just stop thinking about her and just move on? and see down the line if we are both single to see what's up or should I wait around?
Thanks.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Wow...that was quite the heartbreaking night... so, she avoided you, she went to the bathroom a lot, and she wasn't around very much... Ok, so first I am going to go with what I said before... but I'm going to twist it just a little. I think that she sounds like she is a very outgoing person...and I think that the reason she was talking to her sister and friend becuase she was feeling the same way you were...she just had someone to talk to. Besides, girls have...I think that it is just to make it more complicated for guys. But one of the rules is that they go to the bathroom together...it's called the buddy system...I don't know...I guess so that they are together...I've never been able to understand it. I also think that her friend, I don't know if her friend knew you or not, but they sound like they were a lot more comfortable around you. Her sister sounds cool...when she was pushing your love closer to you, I think she was trying to get her to flirt with you...I just think that this girl has had something happen to her...I just can't think why she would be so outgoing in a public place, but be so shy around you, other than liking you...or something in the past with a guy. With that I am sticking with my original answer. It sounds like she was trying to conect with you...I don't think that it was only her that wasn't talking to the other...I think that you both had problems... When she came in saying that these guys were flirting with her...I think maybe she was trying to make you laugh. Becuase she could barily talk to you, then she comes in talking about some other guys? That sounds like a shy attempt at making someone laugh. I think that it is cool that she and her sister are so close, most sisters aren't. I'm wondering if she invited her friends so that she would have someone to lean on, if you know what I mean. Now, I don't know what to say about the whole, delete you and block you on everything. If you ask me...it sounds like she went or already was a little wacked when you met her...Kidding. She sounds like the kind of person that closes up around people, you know, hides her feelings. For most people it is different when meeting people, meeting people in person makes everything real. It is one thing to talk to someone you have never seen or talked to in person, then meet them...they turn into a real person. I know that I am not helping much, but I can relate to this. Guys and Gals are totally different. We think, act, mature, and cope different, and no one can help it. You just have to suck it up, and hope you don't make a fool of yourself.
Her sister telling you not to break her heart either means that she has had her heart broken many times before, or that she hasn't had it broken before, and she doesn't want it to happen any time soon. But you didn't even do anything to this girl, and she still freaked out, so I'm guessing something has happened to her before, and she is scared. My advice for that is just to be carefull.
I have a feeling that you shouldn't give up on her, but try to be careful...
I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
]
More Questions: |