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my b/f cool one minute and immature another


Question Posted Wednesday August 16 2006, 8:12 pm

ok so first of all I give you props for helping people and running this site<3 I usually read through it and actually find other people have asked the question i was going to ask. but this one i couldnt find lol.

I liked this kid last year. i was 14 he was 13 and we were friends but not like extreamlly close. i've known him for like 3 years from a sport. so i found his sn and we talked. about a few weeks later he asked me out and after thinking about it i said yeah. i really liked him and thought he was really sweet but when i started going out with him he seemed like immature and kind of annoying. and when i say immature i mean like little kid-ish. and he would say on his sn that it wasn't him it was his "friend" and he was at the gym or whatever and ask like if i would make out with him and if i even liked him. i dont know so like after about a month i dumped him. now its been a year and we still sayed close. but i dont think he ever gave up on me not to be like bragging or anything.yet this year when i see him he seemed pretty cool and more mature so, to make it shorter i said yes when he asked me out again. hes not the hottest boy or anything but he was cool to hang out with. but now online im getting that same feeling again that he is being immature and annoying and idk its been only like a few days maybe im not giving it enough time or hes just immature online and i should wait because i'm seeing him this weekend. i'm not sure but its bothering me ):


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Teza answered Thursday August 17 2006, 12:55 am:
Most of my guy friends act really immature when they're online. When he said that his "friend" was on his screen name and such, he was probablly lieng. I know why it bothers you so much though, I can't stand it eather. When someone pisses me off over online and they're really annoying, I block them. You should do the same. Tell him straight up that it's getting really annoying how he's always acting like a little kid online and that you don't care who it is, but to stop. Don't put up with it because you're only going to keep getting madder. So anyways, if you like him and want to try and make this relationship work, give it a little more time. After you talk to him, see if he is still going to act like that. He might not be really fun to talk to online, but if you enjoy hanging out with him and if he acts normal in person, then see what happens. If you really can't put up with his immature self then just stay friends. =]
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& thank you very much about what you said.

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