Rachel can't make her own decisions. She follows what everybody else does. She would never pick something on her own. Not even what kind of pizza to get! It's so annoying. What do I do peeps?
Help!
<3 Tracey
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? summerGIRL_xo answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 5:36 pm: rachel is probably self-conscious and waits to see other people's opinions because she doesn't watn to be "different" and she wants to be accepted or whatever. try making her realize thate even if her opinion is different, nobody's gonna get mad. everyone has their own different opinion. you should hint to her about this, or if it "comes up in conversation" - like your talking about opinions or something, idkk - just say like yeah, barbara thought i was gonna get mad at her when she said pepporoni and i was like haha thats so crazy! or something [ summerGIRL_xo's advice column | Ask summerGIRL_xo A Question ]
curliecue answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 5:35 pm: Whenever it comes time to make a decision, let her pick first so that she can't pick what everyone else does. Or when she asks you for an opinion, say "They all seem alright" or something like that. She wants to be a copycat, so don't give her anything to copy. Maybe she'll realize her problem. [ curliecue's advice column | Ask curliecue A Question ]
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