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i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. he will be 20 in Sep. and i'll be 18 in Dec. well my boyfriend got into some trouble about 3 years ago. he spent 2 years in jail. bC some girl lied about her age and she got pregnant by him. well he isn't labled as a sex offender but he is on porbabtion and is not allowed to be around anyone under the age of 18 i know we are risking alot. my mom knows his deal and HIS MOTHER is trippin about the whole thing. we really don't go out and see each other bc of the risk and if we do we go with a group of people. well now i found out that his mom wants to kick him out in a week. i think it might bC he want quit seeing me. so now i have no clue what to do. i wanna stay with him we are so happy with each other. but it's so hard. it keeps getting worse and hasn't really gotten better...
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well maybe you can talk to your mom about letting him stay with you guys if he gets kicked out of his house.i dont think thats why she would be kicking him out though.if she says know then wherever he stays at you can see him at.and if not you could try talking to his mom,if you love him as much as it sounds like you do wou will figure somethin out
let me know how it all wroks out
lots of love,lizzie
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I hate to break it to you but anyone not allowed to be around anyone under 18 is labeled a sex offender or a pedophile. Hes lying to you.
He dates you and gets caught he goes to jail for a long time. In this case you aren't the one that has to complain about it. ANYONE can turn him in.
You would do yourself some good in the long run to
leave this guy alone. He has problems and your age isn't the main problem. If he got in trouble 3 years ago he already committed a crime and new it when he made you his girlfriend.
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If he was under 18 at the time he may not be labeled a sex offender "officially" but if he weren't then his having contact with people under the age of 18 would not be a problem. There is some reason he can't have contact with minors. A reason and punishment put on him by the legal system. You can deny it all day if you want to. I can understand you not wanting to believe it. But it exists. I will tell you if he breaks probation now he will be considered an adult. It will become
public record and he will go to jail. Sorry but some things cannot be sugar coated.
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