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fighting
Ok well me and my best friend[friend A] got in a huge fight and she told another one of my friends[friend b] some things that i told her because i was mad and now Friend b is going around trying to get everyone to hate me and truthfuly im not sad that were not friends anymore but i really dont want everyone to hate me.
And friend A and i have been tight sence like kindergarten and like i finally got sick of her ditching me so im not sad about that either but is it wrong of me to de-friend someone for ditching me??
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Alright! Down to busynuss! Okay then, your main question here I'm afraid can't really be answered. I can give you my opinion, but not a straight yes/no theory. It'd also depend on the situation. It seems like this friend and you have always been great together. You seem to really understand one another but for some reason, when she keeps ditching you, you seem to grow apart. My answer is: No, you shouldn't just drop friendship like that. If I were you (which I'm not. Remember, advice is just a fancy word for 'suggestion') I'd sit friend A down and talk long and hard with her. Tell her that she's making you sad, that you do want to be friends with her but she constantly ditches you and leaves you feeling pretty terrible. Tell her how much it hurts and try to work out some kind of solution. Maybe if you open her eyes, she might change her ways and return to your side. That would also be of use in friend B situation. If friend A befriends you once more, she may confess to friend B what she said. An apology would follow and you'd have both friends back. However, this is entirely up to you. I'm simply putting myself in your situation and doing what I would think would be right. You don't have to do this if you feel uncomfortable or simply want to end both friendships. Remember, these are SUGGESTIONS.
Oh gosh... I'm kind of lazy today and I'm tired. But I did try to answer this question to the greatest of my corny abilities. (Yep, they're corny. *Puts abilities on fire* POPCORN!) If you're unsatisfied, or just plain angry with how I answered, there are thousands of other AGs ready to give you even better advice. I do hope I helped. Take care!
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